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Tag: Life Lessons

On celebrating career milestones and inching closer to dreams

by Lola AkinmadeLatest NewsPosted on July 12, 2013February 19, 201553 Comments

My dreams scared the daylights out of me when I was about 11 or 12. They scared me because they were wild, idealistic, borderline delusional and as unattainable as dreams could be.

Notes on marriage, space, and travel from Paco

by Lola AkinmadeLatest NewsPosted on June 14, 2013October 3, 201511 Comments

Notes on marriage and travel from Paco the chaffeur…

Photos: Chasing light in the souks of Marrakech and my photography goal this year

by Lola AkinmadeEuropePosted on February 21, 2013October 3, 201510 Comments

I’ve been chasing light a lot this year. From how light softly bounces off winter landscapes to the atmospheric light within the souks of Marrakech to the Northern Lights in Swedish Lapland…

Revisiting this year’s focus word – Nurture

by Lola AkinmadeLatest NewsPosted on September 10, 2012October 3, 20152 Comments

In January, I wrote about the focus word I’d chosen to help guide my decision making this year. My chosen word – nurture – has already manifested itself in many ways so far…

Egypt - Eastern Arabian Desert - Photography by Lola Akinmade Åkerström

Regarding travel, my least favorite phrase in the world

by Lola AkinmadeLatest NewsPosted on September 3, 2012November 27, 201712 Comments

I’ve often written about how, as someone who writes about travel and place, I never want to glamorize the actual act of traveling in a way that makes people feel like their own natural path in life isn’t sufficient.

Baby Travel Toy - Photography by Lola Akinmade Åkerström

Traveling with baby: Four things I’m glad I packed onboard

by Lola AkinmadeFamily TravelPosted on June 1, 2012May 4, 201710 Comments

We took our first test flight with baby on Monday. Granted, it was just a little over an hour long but yes! she ended up being “that” screaming baby onboard.

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  • Very few exhibitions move me to tears…and the impeccably curated HAIR IS ART: HAIR IS IDENTITY experience by @fulanibraidbar did just that. 

A singular one of its kind in Sweden, I visited the exhibit in Malmö which chronicles the cultural importance of African hairstyles and the deep rooted identity they embody 🖤

According to the exhibit, it “centres Afro hair as artistic expression, cultural knowledge, and lived identity. Through sculptural wigs, braided forms, photography, and live performance, it invites visitors to experience hair beyond aesthetics - as heritage, resistance, and self-definition. Drawing from Afrofuturist thinking, the exhibition weaves together past, present, and future.”

Can’t wait to see this fabulous exhibit travel across the Nordics 🙌🏾 🌟 

Fantastic vision @arietawho @mimir0se and all your wonderful collaborators! 🔥

#africanart #exhibition #identity #afrofuturism #afrohairstyle
  • Happy Easter 🙏🏽💛
He lives forever in our hearts.

#Easter

Photo shot in Ravenna, Italy
  • On Ash Wednesday, there were less than twenty people in the service I popped into.

I cried because I knew why the pews were empty. I myself rarely go in person these days and listen to sermons virtually.

The evil people have done in God’s name and keep doing in God’s name continues to drive people away.

People who need that love the most. Who need to see God’s reflection in their neighbors.

Hate, exclusion, delusion, xenophobia, wars, genocides, supremacy… the list, long.

All done in God’s name. The very definition of heresy.

On this Good Friday as I remember a savior who paid the ultimate price, my prayer is that my life continues to be a vessel through my work, purpose, talent.

That even when I stumble, God always reaches out Their hand of love to guide me back. 

A savior who hypocrites today will mistreat the very same way because he was brown. A foreigner in their midst.

That is really all I can do. 

Live a life of testimony so people can rediscover God’s grace and goodness 🙏🏽

#GoodFriday

Photo shot in Ludza, Latgale, Latvia
  • Chasing architecture.

Centre Municipal de Vela de Barcelona, Port Olímpic.

#barcelona #waterfront #architecture #structure #streetphotography
  • Chasing architecture.

Centre Municipal de Vela de Barcelona, Port Olímpic.

#barcelona #waterfront #architecture #structure #streetphotography
  • Chasing architecture.

Centre Municipal de Vela de Barcelona, Port Olímpic.

#barcelona #waterfront #architecture #structure #streetphotography
  • ”We create something new to preserve something old.” 

Preserving Japan’s gold-leaf craft, the Yoshidas - husband and wife team - behind Kinzangama’s fourth-generation workshop and their mastery are designated national treasures. 

A few images from their intricate world - @kinzangama_kiln @kinzangama_kutani 

#japan #craftmanship #hokuriku #artisan #presstrip
  • What happens when your rates go up but your past working relationships haven’t caught up?

One situation we often talk about with regards to personal relationships is the loss that occurs when expansion and evolution occurs. When these dynamics shift, there’s an uncomfortable space where we have to both mourn the loss of the relationship while celebrating our next stage, transition, and alignment with our life’s purpose.

But what about in the work place? 
Within your specific industries? 
In the freelancing world? 

When people who once cherished your voice now balk at your rates? As if you aren’t worthy of it?

It’s akin to forever treating your kids like babies without acknowledging their teenage years or transition into adulthood.

It’s difficult to mourn work relationships that once made sense in your metaphoric youth and not so much in your new season. 

This is the deep channel of professional pain we must swim through as we make our way from tight ponds to expansive seas of possibilities.

Let’s acknowledge this, but even better, in a world of limitations we impose on ourselves and each other, let’s celebrate growth and the courage it takes to evolve. 

#growth
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Very few exhibitions move me to tears…and the impeccably curated HAIR IS ART: HAIR IS IDENTITY experience by @fulanibraidbar did just that. 

A singular one of its kind in Sweden, I visited the exhibit in Malmö which chronicles the cultural importance of African hairstyles and the deep rooted identity they embody 🖤

According to the exhibit, it “centres Afro hair as artistic expression, cultural knowledge, and lived identity. Through sculptural wigs, braided forms, photography, and live performance, it invites visitors to experience hair beyond aesthetics - as heritage, resistance, and self-definition. Drawing from Afrofuturist thinking, the exhibition weaves together past, present, and future.”

Can’t wait to see this fabulous exhibit travel across the Nordics 🙌🏾 🌟 

Fantastic vision @arietawho @mimir0se and all your wonderful collaborators! 🔥

#africanart #exhibition #identity #afrofuturism #afrohairstyle
Very few exhibitions move me to tears…and the impeccably curated HAIR IS ART: HAIR IS IDENTITY experience by @fulanibraidbar did just that. 

A singular one of its kind in Sweden, I visited the exhibit in Malmö which chronicles the cultural importance of African hairstyles and the deep rooted identity they embody 🖤

According to the exhibit, it “centres Afro hair as artistic expression, cultural knowledge, and lived identity. Through sculptural wigs, braided forms, photography, and live performance, it invites visitors to experience hair beyond aesthetics - as heritage, resistance, and self-definition. Drawing from Afrofuturist thinking, the exhibition weaves together past, present, and future.”

Can’t wait to see this fabulous exhibit travel across the Nordics 🙌🏾 🌟 

Fantastic vision @arietawho @mimir0se and all your wonderful collaborators! 🔥

#africanart #exhibition #identity #afrofuturism #afrohairstyle
Very few exhibitions move me to tears…and the impeccably curated HAIR IS ART: HAIR IS IDENTITY experience by @fulanibraidbar did just that. 

A singular one of its kind in Sweden, I visited the exhibit in Malmö which chronicles the cultural importance of African hairstyles and the deep rooted identity they embody 🖤

According to the exhibit, it “centres Afro hair as artistic expression, cultural knowledge, and lived identity. Through sculptural wigs, braided forms, photography, and live performance, it invites visitors to experience hair beyond aesthetics - as heritage, resistance, and self-definition. Drawing from Afrofuturist thinking, the exhibition weaves together past, present, and future.”

Can’t wait to see this fabulous exhibit travel across the Nordics 🙌🏾 🌟 

Fantastic vision @arietawho @mimir0se and all your wonderful collaborators! 🔥

#africanart #exhibition #identity #afrofuturism #afrohairstyle
Very few exhibitions move me to tears…and the impeccably curated HAIR IS ART: HAIR IS IDENTITY experience by @fulanibraidbar did just that. 

A singular one of its kind in Sweden, I visited the exhibit in Malmö which chronicles the cultural importance of African hairstyles and the deep rooted identity they embody 🖤

According to the exhibit, it “centres Afro hair as artistic expression, cultural knowledge, and lived identity. Through sculptural wigs, braided forms, photography, and live performance, it invites visitors to experience hair beyond aesthetics - as heritage, resistance, and self-definition. Drawing from Afrofuturist thinking, the exhibition weaves together past, present, and future.”

Can’t wait to see this fabulous exhibit travel across the Nordics 🙌🏾 🌟 

Fantastic vision @arietawho @mimir0se and all your wonderful collaborators! 🔥

#africanart #exhibition #identity #afrofuturism #afrohairstyle
Very few exhibitions move me to tears…and the impeccably curated HAIR IS ART: HAIR IS IDENTITY experience by @fulanibraidbar did just that. 

A singular one of its kind in Sweden, I visited the exhibit in Malmö which chronicles the cultural importance of African hairstyles and the deep rooted identity they embody 🖤

According to the exhibit, it “centres Afro hair as artistic expression, cultural knowledge, and lived identity. Through sculptural wigs, braided forms, photography, and live performance, it invites visitors to experience hair beyond aesthetics - as heritage, resistance, and self-definition. Drawing from Afrofuturist thinking, the exhibition weaves together past, present, and future.”

Can’t wait to see this fabulous exhibit travel across the Nordics 🙌🏾 🌟 

Fantastic vision @arietawho @mimir0se and all your wonderful collaborators! 🔥

#africanart #exhibition #identity #afrofuturism #afrohairstyle
Very few exhibitions move me to tears…and the impeccably curated HAIR IS ART: HAIR IS IDENTITY experience by @fulanibraidbar did just that. 

A singular one of its kind in Sweden, I visited the exhibit in Malmö which chronicles the cultural importance of African hairstyles and the deep rooted identity they embody 🖤

According to the exhibit, it “centres Afro hair as artistic expression, cultural knowledge, and lived identity. Through sculptural wigs, braided forms, photography, and live performance, it invites visitors to experience hair beyond aesthetics - as heritage, resistance, and self-definition. Drawing from Afrofuturist thinking, the exhibition weaves together past, present, and future.”

Can’t wait to see this fabulous exhibit travel across the Nordics 🙌🏾 🌟 

Fantastic vision @arietawho @mimir0se and all your wonderful collaborators! 🔥

#africanart #exhibition #identity #afrofuturism #afrohairstyle
Very few exhibitions move me to tears…and the impeccably curated HAIR IS ART: HAIR IS IDENTITY experience by @fulanibraidbar did just that. 

A singular one of its kind in Sweden, I visited the exhibit in Malmö which chronicles the cultural importance of African hairstyles and the deep rooted identity they embody 🖤

According to the exhibit, it “centres Afro hair as artistic expression, cultural knowledge, and lived identity. Through sculptural wigs, braided forms, photography, and live performance, it invites visitors to experience hair beyond aesthetics - as heritage, resistance, and self-definition. Drawing from Afrofuturist thinking, the exhibition weaves together past, present, and future.”

Can’t wait to see this fabulous exhibit travel across the Nordics 🙌🏾 🌟 

Fantastic vision @arietawho @mimir0se and all your wonderful collaborators! 🔥

#africanart #exhibition #identity #afrofuturism #afrohairstyle
Very few exhibitions move me to tears…and the impeccably curated HAIR IS ART: HAIR IS IDENTITY experience by @fulanibraidbar did just that. 

A singular one of its kind in Sweden, I visited the exhibit in Malmö which chronicles the cultural importance of African hairstyles and the deep rooted identity they embody 🖤

According to the exhibit, it “centres Afro hair as artistic expression, cultural knowledge, and lived identity. Through sculptural wigs, braided forms, photography, and live performance, it invites visitors to experience hair beyond aesthetics - as heritage, resistance, and self-definition. Drawing from Afrofuturist thinking, the exhibition weaves together past, present, and future.”

Can’t wait to see this fabulous exhibit travel across the Nordics 🙌🏾 🌟 

Fantastic vision @arietawho @mimir0se and all your wonderful collaborators! 🔥

#africanart #exhibition #identity #afrofuturism #afrohairstyle
Very few exhibitions move me to tears…and the impeccably curated HAIR IS ART: HAIR IS IDENTITY experience by @fulanibraidbar did just that. 

A singular one of its kind in Sweden, I visited the exhibit in Malmö which chronicles the cultural importance of African hairstyles and the deep rooted identity they embody 🖤

According to the exhibit, it “centres Afro hair as artistic expression, cultural knowledge, and lived identity. Through sculptural wigs, braided forms, photography, and live performance, it invites visitors to experience hair beyond aesthetics - as heritage, resistance, and self-definition. Drawing from Afrofuturist thinking, the exhibition weaves together past, present, and future.”

Can’t wait to see this fabulous exhibit travel across the Nordics 🙌🏾 🌟 

Fantastic vision @arietawho @mimir0se and all your wonderful collaborators! 🔥

#africanart #exhibition #identity #afrofuturism #afrohairstyle
Very few exhibitions move me to tears…and the impeccably curated HAIR IS ART: HAIR IS IDENTITY experience by @fulanibraidbar did just that. 

A singular one of its kind in Sweden, I visited the exhibit in Malmö which chronicles the cultural importance of African hairstyles and the deep rooted identity they embody 🖤

According to the exhibit, it “centres Afro hair as artistic expression, cultural knowledge, and lived identity. Through sculptural wigs, braided forms, photography, and live performance, it invites visitors to experience hair beyond aesthetics - as heritage, resistance, and self-definition. Drawing from Afrofuturist thinking, the exhibition weaves together past, present, and future.”

Can’t wait to see this fabulous exhibit travel across the Nordics 🙌🏾 🌟 

Fantastic vision @arietawho @mimir0se and all your wonderful collaborators! 🔥

#africanart #exhibition #identity #afrofuturism #afrohairstyle
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Very few exhibitions move me to tears…and the impeccably curated HAIR IS ART: HAIR IS IDENTITY experience by @fulanibraidbar did just that. A singular one of its kind in Sweden, I visited the exhibit in Malmö which chronicles the cultural importance of African hairstyles and the deep rooted identity they embody 🖤 According to the exhibit, it “centres Afro hair as artistic expression, cultural knowledge, and lived identity. Through sculptural wigs, braided forms, photography, and live performance, it invites visitors to experience hair beyond aesthetics - as heritage, resistance, and self-definition. Drawing from Afrofuturist thinking, the exhibition weaves together past, present, and future.” Can’t wait to see this fabulous exhibit travel across the Nordics 🙌🏾 🌟 Fantastic vision @arietawho @mimir0se and all your wonderful collaborators! 🔥 #africanart #exhibition #identity #afrofuturism #afrohairstyle
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He lives forever in our hearts.

#Easter

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Happy Easter 🙏🏽💛
He lives forever in our hearts.

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On Ash Wednesday, there were less than twenty people in the service I popped into.

I cried because I knew why the pews were empty. I myself rarely go in person these days and listen to sermons virtually.

The evil people have done in God’s name and keep doing in God’s name continues to drive people away.

People who need that love the most. Who need to see God’s reflection in their neighbors.

Hate, exclusion, delusion, xenophobia, wars, genocides, supremacy… the list, long.

All done in God’s name. The very definition of heresy.

On this Good Friday as I remember a savior who paid the ultimate price, my prayer is that my life continues to be a vessel through my work, purpose, talent.

That even when I stumble, God always reaches out Their hand of love to guide me back. 

A savior who hypocrites today will mistreat the very same way because he was brown. A foreigner in their midst.

That is really all I can do. 

Live a life of testimony so people can rediscover God’s grace and goodness 🙏🏽

#GoodFriday

Photo shot in Ludza, Latgale, Latvia
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On Ash Wednesday, there were less than twenty people in the service I popped into. I cried because I knew why the pews were empty. I myself rarely go in person these days and listen to sermons virtually. The evil people have done in God’s name and keep doing in God’s name continues to drive people away. People who need that love the most. Who need to see God’s reflection in their neighbors. Hate, exclusion, delusion, xenophobia, wars, genocides, supremacy… the list, long. All done in God’s name. The very definition of heresy. On this Good Friday as I remember a savior who paid the ultimate price, my prayer is that my life continues to be a vessel through my work, purpose, talent. That even when I stumble, God always reaches out Their hand of love to guide me back. A savior who hypocrites today will mistreat the very same way because he was brown. A foreigner in their midst. That is really all I can do. Live a life of testimony so people can rediscover God’s grace and goodness 🙏🏽 #GoodFriday Photo shot in Ludza, Latgale, Latvia
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Centre Municipal de Vela de Barcelona, Port Olímpic.

#barcelona #waterfront #architecture #structure #streetphotography
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Chasing architecture.

Centre Municipal de Vela de Barcelona, Port Olímpic.

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Chasing architecture.

Centre Municipal de Vela de Barcelona, Port Olímpic.

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”We create something new to preserve something old.” 

Preserving Japan’s gold-leaf craft, the Yoshidas - husband and wife team - behind Kinzangama’s fourth-generation workshop and their mastery are designated national treasures. 

A few images from their intricate world - @kinzangama_kiln @kinzangama_kutani 

#japan #craftmanship #hokuriku #artisan #presstrip
”We create something new to preserve something old.” 

Preserving Japan’s gold-leaf craft, the Yoshidas - husband and wife team - behind Kinzangama’s fourth-generation workshop and their mastery are designated national treasures. 

A few images from their intricate world - @kinzangama_kiln @kinzangama_kutani 

#japan #craftmanship #hokuriku #artisan #presstrip
”We create something new to preserve something old.” 

Preserving Japan’s gold-leaf craft, the Yoshidas - husband and wife team - behind Kinzangama’s fourth-generation workshop and their mastery are designated national treasures. 

A few images from their intricate world - @kinzangama_kiln @kinzangama_kutani 

#japan #craftmanship #hokuriku #artisan #presstrip
”We create something new to preserve something old.” 

Preserving Japan’s gold-leaf craft, the Yoshidas - husband and wife team - behind Kinzangama’s fourth-generation workshop and their mastery are designated national treasures. 

A few images from their intricate world - @kinzangama_kiln @kinzangama_kutani 

#japan #craftmanship #hokuriku #artisan #presstrip
”We create something new to preserve something old.” 

Preserving Japan’s gold-leaf craft, the Yoshidas - husband and wife team - behind Kinzangama’s fourth-generation workshop and their mastery are designated national treasures. 

A few images from their intricate world - @kinzangama_kiln @kinzangama_kutani 

#japan #craftmanship #hokuriku #artisan #presstrip
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”We create something new to preserve something old.” Preserving Japan’s gold-leaf craft, the Yoshidas - husband and wife team - behind Kinzangama’s fourth-generation workshop and their mastery are designated national treasures. A few images from their intricate world - @kinzangama_kiln @kinzangama_kutani #japan #craftmanship #hokuriku #artisan #presstrip
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What happens when your rates go up but your past working relationships haven’t caught up?

One situation we often talk about with regards to personal relationships is the loss that occurs when expansion and evolution occurs. When these dynamics shift, there’s an uncomfortable space where we have to both mourn the loss of the relationship while celebrating our next stage, transition, and alignment with our life’s purpose.

But what about in the work place? 
Within your specific industries? 
In the freelancing world? 

When people who once cherished your voice now balk at your rates? As if you aren’t worthy of it?

It’s akin to forever treating your kids like babies without acknowledging their teenage years or transition into adulthood.

It’s difficult to mourn work relationships that once made sense in your metaphoric youth and not so much in your new season. 

This is the deep channel of professional pain we must swim through as we make our way from tight ponds to expansive seas of possibilities.

Let’s acknowledge this, but even better, in a world of limitations we impose on ourselves and each other, let’s celebrate growth and the courage it takes to evolve. 

#growth
What happens when your rates go up but your past working relationships haven’t caught up?

One situation we often talk about with regards to personal relationships is the loss that occurs when expansion and evolution occurs. When these dynamics shift, there’s an uncomfortable space where we have to both mourn the loss of the relationship while celebrating our next stage, transition, and alignment with our life’s purpose.

But what about in the work place? 
Within your specific industries? 
In the freelancing world? 

When people who once cherished your voice now balk at your rates? As if you aren’t worthy of it?

It’s akin to forever treating your kids like babies without acknowledging their teenage years or transition into adulthood.

It’s difficult to mourn work relationships that once made sense in your metaphoric youth and not so much in your new season. 

This is the deep channel of professional pain we must swim through as we make our way from tight ponds to expansive seas of possibilities.

Let’s acknowledge this, but even better, in a world of limitations we impose on ourselves and each other, let’s celebrate growth and the courage it takes to evolve. 

#growth
What happens when your rates go up but your past working relationships haven’t caught up?

One situation we often talk about with regards to personal relationships is the loss that occurs when expansion and evolution occurs. When these dynamics shift, there’s an uncomfortable space where we have to both mourn the loss of the relationship while celebrating our next stage, transition, and alignment with our life’s purpose.

But what about in the work place? 
Within your specific industries? 
In the freelancing world? 

When people who once cherished your voice now balk at your rates? As if you aren’t worthy of it?

It’s akin to forever treating your kids like babies without acknowledging their teenage years or transition into adulthood.

It’s difficult to mourn work relationships that once made sense in your metaphoric youth and not so much in your new season. 

This is the deep channel of professional pain we must swim through as we make our way from tight ponds to expansive seas of possibilities.

Let’s acknowledge this, but even better, in a world of limitations we impose on ourselves and each other, let’s celebrate growth and the courage it takes to evolve. 

#growth
What happens when your rates go up but your past working relationships haven’t caught up?

One situation we often talk about with regards to personal relationships is the loss that occurs when expansion and evolution occurs. When these dynamics shift, there’s an uncomfortable space where we have to both mourn the loss of the relationship while celebrating our next stage, transition, and alignment with our life’s purpose.

But what about in the work place? 
Within your specific industries? 
In the freelancing world? 

When people who once cherished your voice now balk at your rates? As if you aren’t worthy of it?

It’s akin to forever treating your kids like babies without acknowledging their teenage years or transition into adulthood.

It’s difficult to mourn work relationships that once made sense in your metaphoric youth and not so much in your new season. 

This is the deep channel of professional pain we must swim through as we make our way from tight ponds to expansive seas of possibilities.

Let’s acknowledge this, but even better, in a world of limitations we impose on ourselves and each other, let’s celebrate growth and the courage it takes to evolve. 

#growth
What happens when your rates go up but your past working relationships haven’t caught up?

One situation we often talk about with regards to personal relationships is the loss that occurs when expansion and evolution occurs. When these dynamics shift, there’s an uncomfortable space where we have to both mourn the loss of the relationship while celebrating our next stage, transition, and alignment with our life’s purpose.

But what about in the work place? 
Within your specific industries? 
In the freelancing world? 

When people who once cherished your voice now balk at your rates? As if you aren’t worthy of it?

It’s akin to forever treating your kids like babies without acknowledging their teenage years or transition into adulthood.

It’s difficult to mourn work relationships that once made sense in your metaphoric youth and not so much in your new season. 

This is the deep channel of professional pain we must swim through as we make our way from tight ponds to expansive seas of possibilities.

Let’s acknowledge this, but even better, in a world of limitations we impose on ourselves and each other, let’s celebrate growth and the courage it takes to evolve. 

#growth
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What happens when your rates go up but your past working relationships haven’t caught up? One situation we often talk about with regards to personal relationships is the loss that occurs when expansion and evolution occurs. When these dynamics shift, there’s an uncomfortable space where we have to both mourn the loss of the relationship while celebrating our next stage, transition, and alignment with our life’s purpose. But what about in the work place? Within your specific industries? In the freelancing world? When people who once cherished your voice now balk at your rates? As if you aren’t worthy of it? It’s akin to forever treating your kids like babies without acknowledging their teenage years or transition into adulthood. It’s difficult to mourn work relationships that once made sense in your metaphoric youth and not so much in your new season. This is the deep channel of professional pain we must swim through as we make our way from tight ponds to expansive seas of possibilities. Let’s acknowledge this, but even better, in a world of limitations we impose on ourselves and each other, let’s celebrate growth and the courage it takes to evolve. #growth
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